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6 helpful tips for introducing your date to friends

  • Friday 29th October 2021
After the first meet ups with someone new have gone well you might start thinking about introducing your date to friends - or even start double or group dating. It can be rather daunting for everyone involved! You both want to make a good impression on your friends and get the valued ‘seal of approval’ all round. I gave my now-husband a baptism of fire after we got together - the cast of the musical tour I was performing in desperately wanted to meet him and surrounded him at stage door very early on in our relationship. For my introverted husband this was completely out of his comfort zone, but he knew how much it meant to me. He totally embraced the occasion and came through with flying colours! Meeting the people who matter to you won’t always be so intense – thankfully! - but how can you make introducing your partner to friends or going on double dates as fun and relaxing as possible?

How to unlock your heart for love

  • Friday 22nd October 2021
If love knocked on your door, would you fling the door open and welcome it in with open arms, would you peer at it suspiciously through the letterbox, or somewhere in between? I ask because I know from experience that looking for love and being ready for love are two different things. We may be dating online, sending messages and meeting for coffee, but we may be doing so with walls of steel around our heart. So how do you unlock your heart and prepare for love?

6 helpful tips for dating after divorce

  • Friday 15th October 2021
It might sound negative to talk about dating after divorce - or even divorce - on a Christian dating site but the reality is that many of us know the pain of divorce yet truly desire a marriage which is ‘till death us do part’. I’ve travelled this road. Married in my mid-twenties, I found myself alone in my forties when my husband left me for someone else he had become involved with. I then spent several years as a single person before meeting and marrying a lovely man who had been through his own difficult divorce before we met. Here’s what I found helpful to consider about dating after divorce along the way:

3 strong principles for making decisions in a relationship

  • Friday 8th October 2021
Making decisions in a relationship can lead to arguments - but it doesn’t have to be that way! In the early stages of getting to know someone, some decisions could be as simple as what to do on a date or which restaurant to eat at. Then, as the relationship progresses, you’re likely to have to decide on bigger issues such as when to take the relationship to the next level, meeting each other’s family and friends and even whether or when to get married. Whatever place you’re at in your connection with someone, here are three principles to abide by when making decisions.

“We couldn’t hide how happy we were” – Andrei & Chloe, our Christian Connection story

  • Friday 1st October 2021
"Hello there. My name is Chloe and we met on Christian Connection. I'd like to share our story with you. My friend met her husband on the website as well. I am in my 30s, and had a free week with the website. I worked at a boarding hostel, in Dunedin. I came home one day to see who was on. Saw this breakdancer photo of Andrei, and we got chatting. I am a dancer and I loved the shot from the Oriental bay here in Wellington. I decided to give him a wave, well I didn't just give him one wave I gave him 10. Just in case he didn't get my first one.

Video Chat Before A First Date Is A Must

  • Monday 9th August 2021

Video Chat Before A First Date Is A Must We all Facetime with friends and family. Video chat became the only way to date or meet during the lockdowns. But to video chat before a first date is a must. Although many people use the term Facetime, that is unique to those who ...Continue Reading

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How To Meet The Right Man When Dating

  • Tuesday 1st October 2019

How To Meet The Right Man When Dating After our article about the issues with women trying to meet quality men, we wanted to publish a little help. Here are some ways how to avoid making mistakes with dating apps and online dating. This will help with how to meet the right man ...Continue Reading

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One of the Most Common Dating Complaints I Hear From Men

  • Monday 5th August 2019

On my Instagram page I posed the question, "What is your biggest frustration with dating?" Wow, did I get a lot of comments. One of the most interesting replies came from a man's perspective. Here is what he said: I've noticed dating through my 30's that women tend to not be completely upfront with their ...Continue Reading

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How To Love Yourself Through Dating Disappointments and Heartbreak

  • Monday 22nd July 2019

Dating is risky. It can lead to heartbreak, anger, sadness, and bring up all kinds of feelings of rejection. Feelings that run deep in our subconscious from childhood wounds. It can trigger us in ways that leave us wondering why we even bother looking for love in the first place when it just seems so ...Continue Reading

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Why the Idea of “Having It All” Is Damaging Us

  • Wednesday 10th July 2019

As I scroll through my Instagram feed I see beautiful glossy images. Images of gorgeous women and their boyfriends traveling to exotic places. Wearing clothes I wish I had. Images of moms who seem more organic than me. More "together" than me. Images of homes that are freshly cleaned and styled just right. Images of ...Continue Reading

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10 Helpful Things To Remember When You’re Healing Post Breakup

  • Wednesday 3rd July 2019

I know how it feels to be crying my eyes out, yet again, over someone that I've tried to get over but still loved. Breakups are not only hard, the loss of a relationship can often be just as painful as actually losing a loved one. It makes sense – this person that you loved ...Continue Reading

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10 Different First Date Ideas That Don’t Involve Happy Hour

  • Thursday 27th June 2019

Whenever I was asked out on a first date, it always seemed to be an endless array of happy hour drinks at bars I'd been to multiple times before. Don't get me wrong, this can be a lot of fun, but it's nice to mix it up and not feel like you're gaining the freshman ...Continue Reading

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You Can Just Peel The Potatoes.

  • Wednesday 12th June 2019

"You can pray to God while peeling the potatoes. Or, you can just peel the potatoes." My sister said this to me over the phone, as we were busy catching up from her trip to Nepal. She lived in Nepal for five months, and was telling me the lessons she learned from the people she ...Continue Reading

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25 Tiny But Valuable Ways To Practice the Art of Self-Care

  • Thursday 30th May 2019

I’ve gotten requests from a lot of women who have said, okay, I’m working on thinking more positively, but I’d love to have more tangible ways to practice self-love and self-care. I get that. Self-love is not just a concept in our heads. Yes, I talk a lot about releasing negative thoughts and criticism towards ...Continue Reading

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7 Lessons In Love I Wished I’d Learned Sooner

  • Monday 20th May 2019

“These are for you,” he said, handing me a dozen red roses and a teddy bear before leaning in to kiss me. My first boyfriend, Danny, was standing in the doorway in full army fatigues. He was picking me up on a warm Friday evening in July to take me out to dinner and a ...Continue Reading

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7 HARSH Truths You MUST Accept to Succeed in Dating

  • Sunday 4th April 2021
Have you ever wondered why most people don’t reach the success they want? Whether it be in dating, career, finances, etc. …They end up settling, and rationalizing why it’s okay. Very few people truly hit their stride, achieve, and maintain high levels of success in dating and other areas. So, what sets these people apart?

6 Truths To Overcome Performance Anxiety With New Women

  • Wednesday 25th November 2020
Preparing for sex with a new partner can feel like preparing for war. Honestly, there are few moments in life when men feel that same intense feeling of dread. I’ve seen men getting ready for a date with a woman with their hands shaking and ready to puke like they’re about to storm the beaches

3 Big Mindsets to Winning the Long Game in Dating

  • Tuesday 17th November 2020
There was a time when I loved digesting every little thing about dating. It was all so addictive. When you first discover you CAN actively get better with women and grow your confidence, it feels like uncovering ancient texts to find the holy grail. You become obsessed thinking that if you just find the right

3 Times I Realized Being a Pickup Artist Was Really Weird

  • Thursday 3rd September 2020
Confession: I used to be a professional pickup artist. Yes, I read women’s palms and rehearsed ridiculous lines that other men claimed were the secret to getting laid. I even used a “cool” pseudonym, Niko. But, that was a lifetime ago. I’ve spent the past twelve years teaching men to honestly know themselves and communicate

20 Guaranteed Ways To Drive Women Absolutely Wild…Literally

  • Thursday 6th August 2020
Yuck. I want to throw up. Why would I write this garbage? Articles about “How to Drive Women Wild” are some of the most clichéd and overdone ideas. Everybody has one. And that’s exactly why I wanted to write this. I wanted to do it justice. Because I got to be honest, I think most

How To Have Amazing Sex With Her From The Start

  • Thursday 18th June 2020
You’ve got a date coming up. You’re anxious about taking things to the next level and having sex with her for the first time. Well, let’s get it out in the open… The first time you have sex with a new woman is always going to suck. But it will suck relatively. It will suck

How To Repair Your Relationship With Your Parents After A Rough Childhood

  • Thursday 14th May 2020
Around 2006, I was an emotional wreck. My family was going through deep financial hardship. I felt like we had lost everything. My father lost his business, I lost my chance at a college education, and every month we were on the brink of losing a place to sleep. I was angry…really angry. It wasn’t

We Proved That Anyone Can Be Social At Our San Diego Retreat

  • Thursday 23rd April 2020
Back in February, before we were all socially distant, we helped six men get socially close to new people in San Diego, California with our exclusive Conquer Confidence Retreat Program. Except for our first retreat in Majorca, Spain, we’ve always stayed in the heart of a city. This time Julian recommended we go back to

The Upside Of Almost Having A Stroke During A Pandemic

  • Friday 10th April 2020
Welcome to the end “I think I’m having a stroke.” I stammered to my wife, struggling to get the words out. We were watching TV when suddenly the vision in my right eye had zig zags running through it. As I gazed around, the room shifted and shimmered like a kaleidoscope. I thought maybe something

Why Is Eye Contact Important Anyway?

  • Thursday 20th February 2020
“You’ve to look people in the eyes.” “Always hold eye contact when you introduce yourself.” “Eye contact is the key to a good first impression.” By the time I was 21, I had heard everything self-improvement advice had to say about the importance of eye contact. And even though it was repeated over and over,